“I am proud to have these drug parents. ‘’Their addiction helped me push harder to become who I am.” –Melissa Plaza, former French Female international soccer legend.
Parents are the first shot to life on earth. They are our first source of shelter, care and protection. They are our earthly gods. Some are wealthy, others are poor; some are lovely, others neglect their kids; and so forth but absolutely nobody can take their place in our lives no matter what. In the words of Melissa Plaza, her parents helped her above anyone, despite them being addicts. According to her, their alcoholism forced her out of her comfort zone, which gave her the push she needed to focus more on her soccer life that later became worthy. She further said “if they had been wealthy, she wouldn’t have been that successful at soccer”. My point here is, parents are never chosen by us but by God so whomever yours are, those are the ones that nature have chosen and set forth for you. If parents were to be picked by children, no child would choose the poorest, least knowledgeable, and/or the nobodies. The reality here is, God designed and arranged parents for each child and they matter more than those of others. In order to become successful, one must be brought into this world which would be impossible without parents. For people whose parents are societally perceived as well-placed, did not even get there through magic or in isolation from parents. Parents are the divine vehicle on which every child rode unto earth. If everybody wants the richest or so-called most stable parents, who will the poorest and so termed “don’t care” parents have as children? Have you ever asked yourself, if they became who they are as a result of trying to make me the happiest person? Or have you heard their side of the story? Never imagine not having either of them as a vessel that transported you because it is forever an unchangeable fact. Nature gives each child an ability to better the lives of his or her parents so never wish that you would have been the child of someone else. The condition of your parent(s) may be as discriminating and shaming as hell but it’s not unique to just you. You may be the catalyst to better that denigrating situation so facing it with boldness is one of the possible solutions. Have you ever wished you had someone else as your Mom or Dad? Have you ever wanted to become the child of some other family? You are wrong about those thoughts . It is not easy seeing your friends’ parents progress in life while yours are held back by obstacles: illness, poverty, abandonment of their homes and kids, but wishing to have them replaced is an attempt to boycott the perfect path to real success. Playing your role as a child is your only requirement to trigger supernatural parental blessings. A lot of people struggle thinking whether they really did choose their parents, or picking one now I think they would have picked loving, better ones or a better family. But the reality is all the pains that you have experienced in your life happened for a reason and helped you grow and learn. There is not one human being on this planet that has not experienced some form of pain; it is a part of life. We are here to grow and pain is a necessary part of the process. So if you’ve had or have a troubled family, or one of your parents left at an early age, or you were adopted, or one of your parents suffered or is suffering from an unspeakable condition, look at how it has shaped who you are today. Look at the direction that you have taken positively because of it. Your birth to that family is for a prearranged purpose so you have to accept your family and play your part perfectly to shift your parents and family.
Authored by Emmanuel Johnson
